《New Book Condition + How To Understand Your Marriage And Create A More Satisfying Relationship》Susan Shapiro Barash - THE NINE PHASES OF MARRIAGE : How to Make It, Break It, Keep It
This national bestseller in paperback edition is a bran-new book and nicely wrapped with protective book-wrapper. The original new book is sold at usual price RM76.21. Now here Only at RM18. Noted that this book is a bran-new book but with minor yellowing content pages due to long period of stocking on book shelf. From the author of Toxic Friends-a groundbreaking look at how to understand your marriage and create a more satisfying relationship Every marriage goes through nine phases. It is only by understanding the course our marriages run that we can truly begin to craft the perfect relationship. In The Nine Phases of Marriage, Susan Shapiro Barash breaks down and analyzes these phases, which are: ● Phase One: Passion and Longing ● Phase Two: Conforming: The Perfect Wife ● Phase Three: Real Life: Child Centricity ● Phase Four: Tension: One Bed: Two Dreams ● Phase Five: Distance: Two Beds: Two Rooms ● Phase Six: Fracturing: Midlife Divorce ● Phase Seven: Second Chances: Remarriage and Renegotiating ● Phase Eight: Balance: Concessions ● Phase Nine: Successful Coupling THE NINE PHASES OF MARRIAGE explores fresh territory and exposes the truth behind how wives really feel about their marriages. It is with this essential knowledge that women can successfully navigate the natural pitfalls and perils of their marriages and embark on a true partnership. Do marriages come with an expiration date? Is the holy matrimony the obvious and safe choice it used to be in the past or a terminable institution? After all, we live in an age that allows women, more than ever before, to live a purposeful life and reinvent themselves after a failed marriage, through their careers, a first if not second college degree, social media, or with the aid of a look makeover and beauty treatments. The lives of those women who embrace 'singlehood', by choice or circumstance, are replete with alternatives. According to the statistics, though, for the vast majority of the American female population 'love-ever-after' is still the ultimate goal of a lifetime. And even when the first go at that 'endless love' fails, a second or third chance at wifedom is still regarded as more acceptable than life as a single. The twenty-first century woman may have revised her priorities and finally accepted the idea that a failed marriage is not an indication of personal failure or loss of identity, but the security and validation provided by the status of 'wife' have long legs. Despite the gender emancipation and empowerment achieved over the last fifty years, women are driven by unconscious motivations, biological needs, and century-old expectations: either for its emotional and spiritual appeal, or for purely practical reasons, the marital institution still represents a safe choice and a hot commodity. Women enter the marriage arena with relentless optimism, but they will ultimately find it hard, unsatisfactory, below their expectations. In this light, it doesn't surprise that women are more inclined than man (66% of divorce actions are initiated by women) to file for divorce. What is it about marriage then, that makes it so desirable? Do wives have unrealistic expectations? Do they have the skills and the understanding necessary to make it work? Why do some women qualify for the role of 'perfect wives' and some others don't, and yet they don't give up on their dream of being happily married ever after? To answer these questions, gender and relationship expert Susan Shapiro Barash interviewed hundreds of women from diverse age groups and walks of life, and came to the conclusion that, whether in a traditional, childless or child-centered marriage, newly wed or widow, divorcee at her second or third experience, all husband-wife relationships have common denominators and patterns that every woman needs to identify and understand in order to better bond with her partner, recalibrate her marriage or invest in a new relationship with an improved self-awareness. According to Shapiro's study, all marriages go through a progression of nine phases and fluctuating emotional waves, and while wives still play a role that abides by old Victorian rules (a focus on the care of the 'family nest', children rearing and education, protection of the 'family brand' and social organization), the cultural shifts of our century, economic downturn and new societal requirements add to the complexity of an already tricky business. The strongest message delivered by the relationship expert is to avoid (while facing the marriage challenges) that negative attitude that blocks a couple's repair mechanisms. Marriages can succeed in spite of all the doubts and tensions emerging throughout some of its stages, only if emotional honesty, communication, meaningful confrontations, mutual understanding and respect in matter of financial responsabilities and housekeeping, shared vision in children's upbringing, commitment to seeking romance and intimacy are kept at all times. Whether you are about to embark on your first relationship, or you are in a marriage that is not providing the emotional gratification you anticipated, or you are looking at your failed marriage in retrospect trying to wise up for the next one, The Nine Phases Of Marriage: How To Make It, Break It, Keep It , with its wide-scope exploration and terse examination of an institution that is striving between old formulas and new expectations, provides an insightful guide to self-reflection and emotional clarity. About the Author SUSAN SHAPIRO BARASH is an established writer of nonfiction women's issue books and has written thirteen books. She teaches gender studies at Marymount Manhattan College. A well-recognized gender expert, she is frequently sought out by newspapers, televisions shows, and radio programs to comment on women's issues. She also blogs for The Huffington Post and Psychology Today. She lives in New York City.
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